Missions With the Consfords
November 5, 2026
As a missionary in Ghana, I've learned that understanding conversion in membership interviews is crucial for effective ministry. But, I've also come to realize that sometimes God's detours can lead…

As a missionary in Ghana, I’ve learned that understanding conversion in membership interviews is crucial for effective ministry. But, I’ve also come to realize that sometimes God’s detours can lead to something more eternal than a week of meetings. In fact, one of my most memorable experiences was when I was “deported” from Ivory Coast and ended up meeting a kind stranger named Roy at the Ivorian embassy in Accra.
When the Unexpected Happens: Deportation and Divine Appointments
After the civil war in Ivory Coast, the nation began to reshape itself under a new government. Unfortunately, I was not always up to date on the latest changes, and that can lead to some serious complications. One morning, I was preparing to travel back to Ivory Coast to participate in a youth camp with several churches I had worked with for years. But, as I crossed the border, I was stopped by immigration officials and told that I needed an entry visa, which I didn’t know was required. Before I could even ask any questions, I was handcuffed and deported back to Ghana.
At first, I was stunned and frustrated. I had always had good relationships with officials on both sides, and I was not a threat to anyone. But, as I reflected on the experience, I realized that God was not punishing me with inconvenience. He was positioning me for a meeting, an encouragement, a pause that I did not even know I needed. I ended up meeting Roy, a kind stranger with a drawl thick as Georgia molasses and a heart tuned to the things of God.
Discerning True Conversion: The Importance of Understanding the Heart
As a missionary, I’ve learned that true conversion is not just about external changes, but about a genuine transformation of the heart. In Proverbs 16:9, it says, “A man’s heart deviseth his way: but the Lord directeth his steps.” This verse reminds us that God is the one who directs our steps, and that true conversion is a work of the Spirit.
But, how do we discern true conversion in membership interviews? It’s not just about asking the right questions, but about creating an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts. It’s about being patient, listening actively, and showing genuine interest in their lives. As I reflect on my experience with Roy, I realize that sometimes God uses those interruptions as interventions, and that true conversion is often marked by a quiet, gentle work of the Spirit in the heart.
We must also be aware that the heart is a mysterious and complex thing. As 1 Corinthians 2:10 says, “But the natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God: for they are foolishness unto him: neither can he know them, because they are spiritually discerned.” This verse reminds us that true conversion is not just about intellectual understanding, but about a spiritual transformation that can only be discerned by the Holy Spirit.
Understanding the African Context: A Culture of Silence and Respect
In many parts of Africa, no one volunteers information unless you ask, and not just any question; you have to ask the right question. If you do not, even if someone knows the answer you need, they probably will not say a word. This culture of silence and respect can be challenging for Westerners, but it’s also an opportunity to learn and grow. As I reflect on my experience with the Ivorian officials, I realize that I should have asked more questions and sought to understand their perspective.
Understanding the African context is crucial for effective ministry. It’s not just about adapting to local customs, but about being sensitive to the cultural nuances and values of the people we serve. By doing so, we can build trust and rapport with the local community, and create an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts.
The Importance of Discernment in Membership Interviews
Discernment is a critical aspect of membership interviews. It’s not just about asking the right questions, but about being sensitive to the Spirit’s leading. As I reflect on my experience with Roy, I realize that God often uses those interruptions as interventions, and that true conversion is often marked by a quiet, gentle work of the Spirit in the heart.
But, how do we cultivate discernment in membership interviews? It’s not just about being more perceptive or intuitive, but about being more attuned to the Spirit’s leading. It’s about being patient, listening actively, and showing genuine interest in the person’s life. By doing so, we can create an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts, and where true conversion can take place.
The Role of the Church in Discerning True Conversion
The church plays a critical role in discerning true conversion. It’s not just about welcoming new members, but about creating an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts. It’s about being patient, listening actively, and showing genuine interest in their lives.
But, how do we create such an environment? It’s not just about adapting to local customs, but about being sensitive to the cultural nuances and values of the people we serve. By doing so, we can build trust and rapport with the local community, and create an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts.
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Conclusion: Discerning True Conversion in Membership Interviews
As a missionary, I’ve learned that understanding conversion in membership interviews is crucial for effective ministry. But, I’ve also come to realize that sometimes God’s detours can lead to something more eternal than a week of meetings. By being patient, listening actively, and showing genuine interest in the person’s life, we can create an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts, and where true conversion can take place.
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As I reflect on my experience with Roy, I realize that true conversion is often marked by a quiet, gentle work of the Spirit in the heart. It’s not just about external changes, but about a genuine transformation of the heart. And, it’s not just about asking the right questions, but about creating an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts.
For more information on how to discern true conversion in membership interviews, visit our pillar page on Missionary on Fire and explore our resources on our blog. And, if you’re considering a career in missions, check out our missionary internship program.
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- Missionary on Fire: A Guide to Discerning True Conversion
- Our Blog: Insights from the Mission Field
- Missionary Internship Program: Apply Now
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Frequently Asked Questions
What is conversion in the context of membership interviews?
Conversion in membership interviews refers to the process of genuine transformation of the heart, where individuals come to know and follow Jesus Christ. It’s about a deep spiritual transformation.
How do I create an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts in membership interviews?
To create an environment where people feel comfortable sharing their hearts, be patient, listen actively, and show genuine interest in their lives. Ask open-ended questions and avoid being judgmental or critical.
What are some signs of true conversion in membership interviews?
Signs of true conversion include a genuine desire to follow Jesus Christ, a willingness to surrender to God’s will, and a deep sense of peace and joy. These signs are often accompanied by a quiet, gentle work of the Spirit in the heart.
How do I discern true conversion in the African context, where silence and reserve are common?
In the African context, discerning true conversion requires sensitivity to cultural nuances and a willingness to listen carefully to individuals’ stories and experiences. Look for signs of genuine transformation, such as a deep sense of peace and joy, and a willingness to surrender to God’s will.
